Since you are wondering about this as your own behavior it is clear that you are becoming more mature Official I’m older now but still running against the wind Bob Seger 50th anniversary 1970-2020 shirt by tshirtat store. A good way to practice with your own behavior first is to imagine someone other than you doing something out of revenge. What would you say to that person to make them see that revenge is not effectively changing their behavior but only making things worse? Think about an answer, take your time.
I see it is quite the opposite. Prior to that when I was still a faithful tither Official I’m older now but still running against the wind Bob Seger 50th anniversary 1970-2020 shirt by tshirtat store, I had a nasty accident that would have caused my life in 1997. I spent seven months in a hospital bed. After that, I found out that many things that pertain to God are different from the way I once saw them. One of em is the tithe. The true essence of spiritual tithing and offerings was quite obscure than what I once thought so I stopped.
I have learned to give more than just a measure as a tenth and I have been blessed by Him more than when I was a tither. This is because He loves cheerful givers without taking any measurements of what they give. Because He gave His Son freely and wholly, I ought to give freely without expecting returns. But in His own way and timing, I have received more than enough only to give again and be a blessing to others.